Have to... want to...
A good "mama" philosophy for me and my children is the "You've got to do what you have to do so you can get to do what you want to do" of "If you don't do what you're supposed to do, you don't get to do what you want to do."
Mama "got to do's" are cleaning the house, cooking, washing clothes, getting kids to school, driving the kids to lessons, scheduling, etc.
Kid "got to do's" are being respectful, obeying parents, keeping their clothes and toys picked up, and practicing their piano, etc.
Realizing there are things that "have to be done" is am important concept for children. If everything is done for them, they never realize the "have to" part of every day living. I think this is where irresponsible adults come from...
In understanding that work comes before play, an important concept of "real life" is taught. The concept of responsibility! Imagine a world where every single person believed they were responsible for their own actions. Imagine a world where the "work before play" concept was understood and practiced by everyone! Imagine a world where everyone (who could) did their part and didn't expect (unless absolutely necessary) someone else to pick up their slack.
Wow... could it be possible? I believe it can be. And it all starts with this simple "mama" philosophy... "If you don't do what you're supposed to do, you don't get to do what you want to do." Try it!
